We have been counting with Jonathan to get him to understand when he needs to do something. It goes something like this: "Jonathan, go put your shoes on." Ignore, ignore, ignore. "Jonathan, put your shoes on. 3 (pause), 2 (pause)..." Then he runs to put his shoes on. (BTW, this is not a commentary on this parenting strategy, so please no comments on that.)
Just a few minutes ago, Jonathan asked me to come down stairs with him. He left with out me and then I heard him yell, "Mommy, come down stairs now. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8..."